With passing time and entering in the age of puberty, not only we change physically but emotionally as well. Leaving behind your childhood and stepping in the age of puberty a number of changes occurs in a girls’s body. The most prominent change is the desire of sex. Having sex for the first time can be a daunting experience. Some girls fear from losing virginity and a lot of thoughts will cross your mind. Will it hurt? Will it bleed? These are a few common questions that most first-timers have. Know that if you’re having consensual and safe sex, you’re doing the right thing. But we understand that it’s okay to feel nervous which is why we have made a list of tips for you that will help you glide through your first time smoothly. Read on to know what we’re talking about.
Complete guide to have a safe and gentle sex first time:
We have a lot of expectations when it comes to our ‘first time’. It’s only normal to want it to be special and memorable and that’s why we want you to be prepared. Here are some things you should keep in mind if you’re going to lose your virginity.
Know Your Body’s sensitive parts:
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pleasure comes from touching body gently and roughly .Before you let someone in, explore your body. Masturbation can actually help in knowing your body and that will help you to tell your partner what you really feel and want. This will, in turn, lead to a good first-time experience.
Talk openly what you feeling with your partner:
It is always good to maintain a healthy line of communication with your partner, you both should feel comfortable talking to each other about absolutely everything. Your likes, dislikes, fetishes, everything. This will also help them in better understanding your needs (in bed). If you’re concerned about something, they should know that too. Together, you can actually help each other make it a great first-time experience.
Orgasm is key factor during sex:
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Ladies, this is one thing that everyone should know. If you fake an orgasm once, you make it difficult for yourself to communicate your feelings with your partner. This is in fact, more important when you’re having sex with someone for the first time. It is like setting unrealistic standards because let’s face it, ladies, not everyone can get an orgasm the first time they have sex. And that’s okay.
Don’t go too quickly, go slowly and enjoy more
Slow and steady wins the race, remember? Sex can get so exciting sometimes but the real deal is to take it slow. Enjoy and feel every moment to make it an everlasting memory.
Bleeding is not compulsory : SOme girls don’t bleed at first time sex:
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Its an old myth that every girl bleeds during losing virginity.Let’s put it this way – some women bleed during their first time due to the stretching of the hymen. However, your hymen can stretch due to a lot of other reasons like riding a bicycle or working out. It is a misconception that sex for the first time makes you bleed and hurts. Some women bleed while others don’t, so relax.
Build your own experience
Your friends may tell you their first-time stories, but know that every individual has different experiences. Some may experience pain while other’s orgasm in the first go. Experience things yourself before you make perceptions because that might give you high expectations.
Long Foreplay can enhance leisure moments
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Foreplay makes you comfortable with the person you’re with. It turns you on and makes the sex feel even better. Make sure you indulge in a long foreplay session before you decide to jump in the real deal.
How to use a Lubricant?
If you’re having sex for the first time, it may get a little difficult. It is best to use a lubricant in such a situation. Lubricants are great alternatives if you’re looking at friction-free safe sex.